“People hate that I flip two cigarettes
Upside down in each pack
But I hate that people notice
When you gain three pounds,
But not when you buy a new hat.
I’ve been told that the way I sleep
With one leg draped over
The person lying next to me
But I think it’s annoying
When people tell me
I look pretty,
But only when I paint my face.
I’ve heard that old men
Like to touch the girls who work late at bars,
But I want to know
Why they never kiss the women they married
forty-two years ago.
I’ve noticed that mothers teach their daughters
That it’s rude to refuse a hug
From an uncle they’ve met three times,
But forget to teach them
That they aren’t obliged to kiss
The boy who paid for dinner.”—(via thewriterandthewildflower)
Every time there’s a dude who tries to claim that he is a “feminist” on here, there’s a 99.9% chance that if you go to his blog his ask/submit link will be labeled as “send me nudez!!”
Wow how awesome of you to use feminism as a platform to get brownie points from women all in the hopes of catering to your boner, you piece of shit.
I can think of at least five people off the top of my head…
Wait wait wait wait wait. You mean as a male feminist I’m not allowed to appreciate women’s bodies or sexualize them? I know damn well women are people and not just a set of boobs, ass, and a vagina like a piece of meat. I can understand if you use the term feminism purely to get women to think more of you, that’s fucking disgusting and a new low for men. But I can’t think women are fucking beautiful and appreciate the female figure? Like if girls want to send me nudes it’s their choice and they are consenting to do so. You’re saying all men that are feminisms that enjoy naked women use their feminism to get women naked, which is judging as all as the same, which is FUCKING EXACTLY WHAT FEMINISM IS AGAINST YOU DUMBASS. I’m not going to say that some guys, well maybe many guys, do actually do that fucked up shit. But not all of us do. I just think women are so beautiful. That doesn’t make me a bad person. Or a shitty feminism.
hahahahahaha HOLY FUCKING SHIT YOU ARE NOT A FEMINIST YOU SHITHEAD
I can’t even deal with all these whiny ass dudes defending their ~right~ to have a “submit nudez” link on their blog and equating this post to actual oppression, oh my fucking god. This is exactly why men can’t be feminists. The second you mention that their orgasms don’t dictate feminism, they’re all up in arms and start trying to say that calling out their bullshit is the same as sexism. Jesus fucking christ.
“The struggle of women, the feminist struggle, is not a struggle for more money per hour, or for equal rights under male law, or for more women legislators who will operate within the confines of male law. These are all emergency measures, designed to save women’s lives, as many as possible, now, today. But these reforms will not stem the tide of gynocide; these reforms will not end the relentless violence perpetrated by the gender class men against the gender class women. These reforms will not stop the increasing rape epidemic in this country, or the wife-beating epidemic in England. They will not stop the sterilizations of black and poor white women who are the victims of male doctors who hate female carnality. These reforms will not empty mental institutions of women put into them by male relatives who hate them for rebelling against the limits of the female role, or against the conditions of female servitude. They will not empty prisons filled with women who, in order to survive, whored; or who, after being raped, killed the rapist; or who, while being beaten, killed the man who was killing them. These reforms will not stop men from living off exploited female domestic labor, nor will these reforms stop men from reinforcing male identity by psychologically victimizing women in so-called “love” relationships.”—
saw your post about freelee, yes UGH. also durianrider, he's her boyfriend, more famous and so much worse. makes videos telling 'people' (man code for men) to go raw to change their lives/live longer/feel better and then tells women to go raw to be thin and sexy. i feel bad for freelee because he's obviously a pervasive influence in her life. calls her fat/gross pre-raw and uses pictures of her to try and get more followers. just constant negative fat-shamey ignorance throughout.
Wow, I’ve heard of him and have seen him with her in some videos before but never checked out his own page or content really. I figured it would be repulsive. I saw him posting pictures of a woman’s body once that was supposedly sent to him by the woman’s boyfriend, he was asking everyone to comment on whether or not they thought she was getting “too muscular.” Fucking gross. They promote the idea that women can’t be fat or whoops, we’re the scum of society! But don’t we dare gain too much muscle mass either and veer too far away from society’s ideal of women being ever so thin and fragile or we might gross out the men in our lives and random strangers on the internet. :”’(
I also saw one video of the two of them trying to convince their viewers that absolutely any woman, anywhere is capable of having the “thigh gap” with enough “dedication.” Nevermind the fact that none of them were discussing whether or not men should be forced into some stupid idea of maintaining a thigh gap. Just adding to the problem of women with body image issues and telling girls and women that they need to be thin above anything else in life.
It’s really sickening to think about how the two of them are spreading so many disgusting lies to all the people following them and people are associating that as synonymous with veganism. I do feel bad for her after hearing that he does that with her pictures and uses her as a tool to further his image, but they’re still both so problematic, just ugh. It’s all awful.
Moral of the story is, don’t ever listen to a word from either of them, and if you are promoting veganism as a means to shame women about their bodies and tell them that they need to lose weight or look a certain way, you need to get the fuck out of here and never mention veganism again because you’re a terrible person. Veganism has never and will never have anything to do with that bullshit.
“I treat myself like I would my daughter. I brush her hair, wash her laundry, tuck her in goodnight. Most importantly, I feed her. I do not punish her. I do not berate her, leave tears staining her face. I do not leave her alone. I know she deserves more.
I know I deserve more.”—Michelle K., I Know I Deserve More
Stop messaging me. Stop asking if I’ll submit to your skeevy blog. I posted one picture last month of my armpits with some hair on them. I had to delete the stupid picture because I don’t want it being posted by you assholes any further. None of you pieces of shit even asked if I wanted to be featured on your porn blog before reblogging me. If you had, I would’ve said fuck no, but that apparently means nothing.
My body’s natural fucking state isn’t something I posted so that you disgusting sacks of shit can fap to it and fetishize me and follow me only in hopes of seeing more for your nasty eyes. Seriously, go die.
you keep saying “we’re all human” but all i hear is “i want to completely ignore institutionalised oppression and shut my eyes and pretend everyone is treated equally to escape the guilt of the numerous privileges i’m afforded”
“One of my oldest crusades is against the distinction between thought and feeling, which is really the basis of all anti-intellectual views: the heart and the head, thinking and feeling, fantasy and judgement… and I don’t believe it’s true… I have the impression that thinking is a form of feeling and that feeling is a form of thinking.”—Susan Sontag